I skip the pity invite plans now and treat a free Saturday like a win
I used to scramble to fill any hole in my weekend the second plans fell through, like when a buddy bailed on a Saturday trip to Fort Worth and I drove 40 minutes to a mall just to have something to do. Now I just stay home, and that quiet block of time turns out better than whatever I was chasing. My brother in law says I am wasting my weekends, but I got 3 loads of laundry, a nap, and a whole porch painted while he sat in traffic going nowhere. Does anyone else think the canceled plans are the good part?