I used to just scatter seed on the ground like a chaos goblin (now I actually use a platform feeder and my yard is a bird sanctuary)
For two whole years I just tossed sunflower seeds and millet directly onto the grass. I thought feeders were just for show, honestly. Then last spring a pair of mourning doves got into a weird territorial scrap over a single kernel right by my patio door (it was like watching a slow motion soap opera). My neighbor actually yelled over the fence "you're wasting half that seed to squirrels" and I was like, wait, he's right. So I grabbed a basic tray feeder from the hardware store for like $12 and now I get blue jays and cardinals every morning. The doves still visit too, but they have to share the platform like civilized birds. Has anyone else had that moment where you realized your setup was completely wrong?